Trash Talk Tuesday: Appeal to Pity

Trash Talk Tuesday:

Time once again for us martial arts bloggers to learn:
1) How NOT to make a case for or against someone or something
2) Why certain comments set our teeth on edge
3) How to stay focused when discussing our arts

TTTues
It’s Trash Talk Tuesday!

In an interview for an obscure martial arts blog podcast, Sensei Rockum Sockum had this to say:

“Hey, I’m the victim here.  Those guys who badmouth me and my Home Study Karate Kourse – they’re just jealous.  I ask you, is it fair to judge my training methods just because they’re different from the so-called traditions?  I have the right to train my students however I want.  To top it all off, there’s a rumor going around that I got my black belt in a Cracker Jacks box!  Geez, that’s really low.  So hey, tell you what.  Don’t listen to those bullies – listen to me and give my Home Study Karate Kourse a try…”

Yeah, Sensei Rockum Sockum is laying it on really thick.  Do you notice the lack of supporting evidence in the case he’s making for himself?  He didn’t say who trained him, he didn’t refute those who question him with solid evidence of how well trained his students are…  We’re supposed to buy into his Home Study Karate Kourse just because we feel sorry for him.  Yeah, right.

If you’d like to learn more, you can follow along in the book The Fallacy Detective by Nathaniel Bluedorn and Hans Bluedorn

Reconciling My Karate and My Faith

Someday, a fellow Christian might try to convince me Christians have no business taking Karate.  That person might be convinced I’m on the road to Hell.  I have a strange feeling that “someday” will be soon, so I’m beginning to seek out some answers and form an opinion.   Let me clarify things by presenting what I mean by a Christian: someone who believes John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”  I know there are lots of other definitions out there!  Now back to our regular scheduled program…

THE PYRAMID

A number of years ago, someone taught me about a pyramid chart – a handy visualization for categorizing beliefs or practices.  At the base of the pyramid are personal preferences – things the Bible is silent about.  At the bottom of the pyramid is stuff that really doesn’t matter much at all in the grand scheme of things.  For example, I chose to eat wholegrain cereal for breakfast, someone else chose to eat a donut.  In the middle of the pyramid is all the things the Bible does mention and principles from the Bible do apply, but exact practices are not outlined and/or nitpicky details aren’t given.  With this middle section, each individual and/or church is just doing the best they can with what they know.  Communion traditions such as intinction or presenting the elements separately should go in the middle of the pyramid.  This section isn’t nearly as big as the base of the pyramid.  At the top in its own teeny tiny triangle are the things that the Bible doesn’ t leave much wiggle room for debate.  Jesus’ resurrection definitely goes at the top.  Of course we as human beings will debate the Bible anyway, but you get the idea.

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A small minority of Christians skew the pyramid so badly that they have the top section take up almost the entire pyramid.  “GAWD delivered me from that donut and SAID unto me, (1 Cor 6:19) ‘The body is a temple of my Holy Spirit,’ so I say to YOU people GAWD wants us to eat oatmeal with NO SUGAR for breakfast!”  By the way, if you look at the context of the Bible verse referenced, it’s about something a lot more fun than donuts.  These people might say that Christians shouldn’t have anything to do with Karate because it’s not in the Bible (neither is brushing one’s teeth) and because it’s from a part of the world that developed different belief systems (genetic fallacy).  Don’t tell me there aren’t Christians who act like this – trust me, I’ve met some and I’m very glad they live thousands of miles away from me.

I submit that Karate and self defense in general can have a place in a Christian’s life, and it belongs firmly in the bottom section (personal preferences).  Therefore Karate is not as earth-shattering an issue as, say, the forgiveness of sins through the sacrifice of God’s own Son.

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TURN THE OTHER CHEEK

No, this doesn’t mean moon your attacker – that’s a bad tactical move because your back is turned to your opponent and your trousers tie up your legs!

There are many Christians who are far more balanced than my fictional “Donuts are from Satan” person.  Some among this group don’t like the idea of self defense. They sometimes cite Scriptures that at first read seem to prohibit self defense.  Matthew 5:38-42 is the most common Scripture cited.  Jesus said,

“You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, do not resist an evil person; but whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. If anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, let him have your coat also. Whoever forces you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks of you, and do not turn away from him who wants to borrow from you.”

I could try to pick apart every word in Matthew 5:38-42.  I could ask those who have studied the original languages for help and insight, but I don’t think that’s necessary.  The first thing I notice is these are not life-threatening situations.  They have the potential to escalate, but Jesus doesn’t want us Christians to escalate things.  He wants us to respond with love that goes the extra mile.

I hear you saying, “Hey, someone hauls off and hits you and you’re not supposed to fight back?!?”  Here’s where I will ask the help of a Bible scholar, a man I once knew in a church I attended for several years – a scholar whose credentials are solid.  According to Dr. Tom Constable’s Expository Bible notes the type of strike mentioned in the Scripture referenced above is regarded as an insult – sort of like flipping someone the bird.  Try attacking the next person who gives you the finger and see where that gets you with the judge later on.

I could cite Scripture after Scripture of warriors who defended God’s people.  However, using history to justify something as Biblical puts one on tricky footing.  Just because something happened doesn’t mean it’s an action plan for us to follow.  For example, King Solomon dabbled in idol worship.  That doesn’t mean it’s OK for us Christians to do the same!

I think the pacifism thing is doubled for Christian women because of a misguided notion that women must take a back seat to men in all aspects of life.  Most of the Christian women I know don’t take responsibility for their health or safety.  I’d like to see them at least take a daily walk and take a self-defense seminar every year!  Some women think God doesn’t want women to be strong and/or powerful because those are supposedly strictly masculine traits.   A few believe that God will protect them from everything.   We all know bad things sometimes happen to good people.  I don’t know about you, but I like increasing my odds of survival.

 

POTENTIAL FOR TROUBLE?

Meditation in Karate can be a sticking point for us Christians.  There are as many teachings about mokuso as there are senseis.  It has never once been a problem for me.  I’ve heard of other dojos where the senseis are a bit more enthusiastic about meditation practices that make us Christians uncomfortable.  One can either agree to disagree, or find another dojo.  There probably are a few dojos out there where the Senseis are downright pushy about mokuso, and that could very well be a good, solid reason to find another dojo.  My attitude is no one can control what goes on between my ears during mokuso, so other beliefs and practices are not a threat to me.  My soul isn’t in jeopardy just because I happen to be kneeling next to someone who practices something different.  In fact, it does me more harm than good to sit there grousing about what that person believes!

It’s worth mentioning this can work both ways.  There may be some dojo out there somewhere that is run by a Christian sensei who is so pushy about praying during mokuso that people of other faiths don’t feel welcome.  We as Christians don’t have to agree with our neighbor, but we do have to love him or her.  That doesn’t mean we need to hide who and what we are, but it does mean we need to let people freely choose or decline what Christianity brings to the table.  Sorry for the bunny trail, but I know someone would bring it up if I didn’t!

Skipping church is another sore point.  Karate tournaments are often held on Sundays.  I don’t think this blog is the place to get into the interplay of Mosaic Law (Exodus 20:8 – keeping the Sabbath holy) and the fulfillment of the Law through Christ, but if you want to explore that further, it’s well worth pursuing.  There’s enough grace in that concept to where many Christian families participate in athletic events on Sunday every once in awhile.  Christians like to cite Hebrews 10:25 as another justification to go to church every single Sunday.  This Scripture is an encouragement to persevere in the faith, not a mandate to attend every single Sunday school, worship service, and Bible study.  I don’t think going to a tournament every now and then is going to cause my faith to waver.

NOT FOR EVERYONE

Some Christians genuinely do feel they need to refrain from studying a martial art. They understand every instructor and style is different.  They don’t judge others but they personally feel their walk with God is better if they stay away from martial arts.  They understand they are simply expressing a personal preference.  Some have been in abusive dojos, some haven’t.  I totally respect that.  This is, after all, what the bottom of the pyramid is all about.  I would encourage those people to at least be aware of their surroundings, use common sense, and to take a self defense seminar every year or so.  I also appreciate their willingness to let me manage my own study of Karate and my own relationship with God.

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Keep Your Religion Out of the Dojo

There seems to be some dispute over the originator of the quote, “Preach the Gospel at all times.  If necessary, use words.”  It’s my silent mantra in response to anyone who growls that religion has no place in the dojo.   My faith is a part of my heart and soul, so if I’m in the dojo, my “religion” is in the dojo too.   I’m sure there are people of many other faiths (and yes, agnosics and athiests too!) who also feel their beliefs are a vital part of their identity.  I’m pretty sure that “Keep your religion out of the dojo,” really means, “Say ‘ossu,’ and train!”

Some of my Christian brothers and sisters would take me to task for not taking every opportunity to get in every karateka’s face about what Jesus has done for them.  News flash – I’m not very good at evangelizing.  I am a deacon – a “dust raising” servant.  I set up tables, cut a mountain of strawberries, leave the memorial service ten minutes early to bring perishable food out of the fridge, and I stay late to put the tables away.   Us deacons are every bit as vital and valued as those who are especially gifted at preaching.  A deacon is a good person for a setting where sermons aren’t welcome, don’t you think?

For further reading:  “Martial Art Confidence” by Andrea Harkins

Trash Talk Tuesday: Appeal to Fear

Trash Talk Tuesday:

Time once again for us martial arts bloggers to learn:
1) How NOT to make a case for or against someone or something
2) Why certain comments set our teeth on edge
3) How to stay focused when discussing our arts

TTTues
It’s Trash Talk Tuesday!

An ad in a comic book reads:  Sign up today for Sensei Rockum Sockum’s Home Study Karate Kourse or be the victim of bullies forever!

Fear tends to dampen our thinking process a bit.  This is why it is often used in advertising – has anyone over the last forty years ever actually been taunted in public by someone singing, “Ring around the collar”???  Hmm.    The comic book ad above makes some pretty broad assumptions.  Is the reader a victim?  The reader could be one of those people who is navigating high school just fine, thank you.   The ad implies there is no other option for dealing with bullies other than taking the Home Study Karate Kourse.  Thankfully we know that is not the case.

Note that a direct threat is not appeal to fear, but is simply a threat.  An example:  “Gimme your lunch money or I’ll give you a wedgie!”

If you’d like to learn more, you can follow along in the book The Fallacy Detective by Nathaniel Bluedorn and Hans Bluedorn

Tournament Weekend – Part Two of Two

Sunday 2/8/15

As is typical for tournaments, it took for-ev-er to get through kids’ divisions.  After the teenagers were called to staging, I nudged my daughter and a Sempai from our dojo and joked, “See those kids in staging?  They’re the little kids who were competing soon after we arrived.  We’ve been here long enough for them to grow up!”  I think next tournament I’m just going to wander around campus, find comfy chairs and read, eat lunch, then mosey back to the gym.

Sempai and I were called into staging at the same time, so he and I warmed up, stretched, and did some very light and easy sparring drills together.  My division was called first because it was smaller than Sempai’s.  Much smaller.

I have two medals – one for kata, one for kumite.  Color?  Hee hee hee.  If I were just three months (to the day!) older, they would be silver. But in actuality, they are gold.  How’s that work, you ask?  I’m 44, so I’m in the 35-44 year old female beginners’ division.  I was the only one in that division who showed up.  The other lady was in the 45 and older female beginners’ division, and she was the only one to show up.  A judge explained that we’d both get gold no matter what – but we’d have to work for it.  Accordingly, we were in an exhibition match.  After the judge went back to his station, I winked at my opponent and said, “I won’t tell if you won’t tell!  Let’s put on a good show, and this’ll be our secret!”  We had a good laugh over it.  Then she proceeded to win at both kata and kumite.  So to me, I’m second place, and I’m happy with that.  I’ll just pretend the extra “oomph” that makes my medals gold is for the personal triumph of surviving Saturday.

Now here’s the really hilariously funny part.  A young giant Sempai half my age whips my tail, uh, coaches me in kumite.  My opponent was six inches shorter than me.  I had a hard time adjusting and she was speedy quick!  She beat me fair and square.  Bonus – she’s in the organization of dojos I trained in when I was a teenager.  I was very pleased that a Sensei from a sister dojo hung the medals around my neck – he and I have been acquainted since before I started training.

Immediate feedback from one of my Senseis, who was able to take a break from judging to watch me, was exceedingly useful.  I have some new goals to work towards.  I’m really excited about one goal – working on the cadence and rhythm of kata.  I was a bit rushed during tournament.  I’ve since gotten more tips on that, and I’m going to have to spend plenty of practice time exploring and experimenting with that aspect of kata.  It should be interesting!

My daughter and I stayed until the end.  Man, oh man, that last division to go up (18-35 advanced men) was a great show – the best was last and the stadium was mostly empty – the vast majority of people who came to the tournament missed the very best part!

After the tournament was over, there were so many people helping with loading the truck with mats and such for storage I had trouble finding work to do.  I was dog tired, so my daughter and I simply went home.  I slept like a rock.  The pre-dawn walks with my dog the next three mornings were interesting – I avoided going downhill because all the muscles that engage when walking downhill were pretty sore.  I survived Karate on Monday, but on Tuesday I was so tired that I volunteered to teach squirrel-ly little boys their kihon katas rather than work on my own katas.  I needed that break, and on Wednesday was doing just fine again.

I still can’t believe I did all that!

Trash Talk Tuesday: Proof by Lack of Evidence

Trash Talk Tuesday:

Time once again for us martial arts bloggers to learn:
1) How NOT to make a case for or against someone or something
2) Why certain comments set our teeth on edge
3) How to stay focused when discussing our arts

TTTues
It’s Trash Talk Tuesday!

Neighbor Nate is getting fed up with the Disciple of Master Trik-Ki Woo who came to his door peddling membership in the Kung Fu Kollege.

Neighbor Nate:  Look, pal, I work out at the gym and I’m happy with that.  I don’t have any interest in learning Kung Fu and I don’t think I’m in any danger from alien zombies.

Cultist:  Oh yeah?  Well, prove that there won’t be an alien zombie invasion!

Neighbor Nate:  Oh for crying out loud.  I don’t have to listen to this…

Cultist:  You can’t prove it, can you?  Therefore, my Master is right – there will be one, and you’d better prepare for it by training with us!

[Neighbor Nate slams the door in the cultist’s face]

Way to shift the burden of proof, Cultist!  The cultist knows he has nothing to back up his assertion, so he attempts to shift attention.  Obviously, the cultist lacks the spine to go do his own research – perhaps he fears finding out some very uncomfortable truths about Master Trik-Ki Woo!  Neighbor Nate could have pointed this out, but really – if someone is that brainwashed, disengaging is always an option 🙂

If you’d like to learn more, you can follow along in the book _The Fallacy Detective_ by Nathaniel Bluedorn and Hans Bluedorn